Charu- You raise some valid points, but nothing in my article is intended to suggest we substitute the important work of maintaining relationships with loved ones in exchange for chats with strangers. The quote from the New York Times notes that talking to strangers can boost our mood, which can carry over to how we relate to our loved ones. Yes, some grumps might chat with a stranger and then continue being grumpy with their loved one, but research seems to suggest the opposite. Positive interactions with strangers can improve our mood. As an introvert, I tend to avoid conversations, but find that when I do engage with strangers, I enjoy it and sometimes learn new things. By all means, we must love and care deeply for our spouses/children/close relations, but what’s wrong (particularly in this divided nation) with chatting with strangers, acknowledging their humanity, listening and learning new things? We could use a bit more friendliness in this world.