Sonia- Yes, it’s a difficult position to be in. I think the answer is a lot like safety in an airplane. We are instructed to put our oxygen mask on before we help anyone else, because if we pass out, we’re no good to anyone else. So, escaping from your abusive father allows you to gain strength and reshape a better, healthier life. Then, when you are strong enough and have the support you need, you can consider reaching out to others in your family for help.

Thanks for reading and best of luck as you move forward!